To Everyone

As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith. (KJV) ( Galatians 6:10 ) 

Who wants to be taken advantage of?  No one.  However, we are called to do good to everyone and not be selective in who we serve.  Do you let fear of exploitation of your generosity keep you from sharing with others?  It's a good thing Jesus didn't have this fear when He chose to die on the cross for sins He knew we would commit again and again.

Words

He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction. (KJV) ( Proverbs 13:3 ) 

Do you measure your words carefully?  Do you filter and refine them before throwing them out for all to hear?  Much can be communicated between words such as attitudes, values, and perceptions.  Even as simple as changing a word can mean all the difference between offending someone or finessing a situation.  It's easy to launch words for all to hear, but impossible to take them back.  Yes, opening your mouth can ruin everything.

Gold Jewelry

As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear. (KJV) ( Proverbs 25:12 ) 

Criticism can be tough to swallow.  What if criticism were viewed as a prized possession that's wrapped with great care, presented with honor, and accepted with gratitude?  The verse above points out that valid criticism only becomes precious to anyone who listens.  When you listen to criticism are you listening for negativity or constructive gold?

Your Mess

Happy is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the LORD his God: (KJV) (Psalm 146:5) 

Where do you turn when your life turns into a mess?  How do you pick up the pieces?  A mess is always easier to clean when you have someone helping you.  God is just waiting for you to invite Him into your mess.

My Shield

"The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower." —Psalm 18:2

A rock provides firm footing and a solid foundation. When it's easy to just give up and we face tough times, who or what do you turn to when you have a tough day? Seek shelter and put your feet on firm footing. Ask God to be the power that saves you.

A Spirit Of...

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. (KJV) (2 Timothy 1:7) 

Do you have a lot of worries over circumstances you cannot control?  Dear friend, one ounce of worry doesn't do an ounce of good.  Letting worry creep in means you are giving control of the situation over to a spirit of fear.  If you find yourself worrying about something, stop and occupy your mind in a way that solves the problem.  Better yet, get your hands busy and put on a spirit of love by serving others.

Many Will Say

Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find? (KJV) (Proverbs 20:6) 

Words are easy to say, it only takes a breath to utter them.  But it's much more difficult to be a reliable friend.  It requires consistent communication, thoughtful awareness of feelings, and opening yourself up in vulnerable times.  Don't be too quick to say you are a loyal friend who is without any reliable friends. Have you been supporting your friends in a way that shows them you are reliable?  If not, do you have a valued friend who needs you right now?